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But the actually doing it...well, it's about as fun as a brief encounter with a freezing cold speculum while your panties are in a wad on a plastic chair in a freezing cold (and poorly lit) office. OK, so maybe I'm being dramatic, but unless you're one of those natural social butterflies or one of the rare birds who still regularly hangs out with all your high school friends, finding new people is tough. Even science has looked at the issue of adult friendships and found that without serious work, it's basically all downhill once you hit your late 20s.But, IMHO these have helped me snag new members for my grown-up tribe.
Trying too hard and putting too much pressure on yourself will get you nowhere.
But you do have to take the weight and pressure of it off yourself and let it go.