There are just some people out there who can’t seem to take any sort of responsibility for their actions.
For some reason, they never quite got the memo that, yes, they’re an adult now, which means being held accountable for their actions.
Navigating the waters of the dating pond is tricky enough, regardless of what kind of relationship you’re looking for.
And while there are plenty of fish in the sea, some seem to be stuck in a perpetual state of childhood.
Living with a parent out of the need to tend to family matters is one thing.
Cereal or ramen for dinner every single night is also totally acceptable — if you’re in college.Thought Catalog says there’s reason to be concerned if your partner just can’t seem to get his or her life in order.If your partner is one of those people who just really needs to get a grip, it’s time to do some de-stressing and decluttering of your own, and jump ship. Well, if you need to use it with your partner every day, it’s time to take a good, hard look at the toll your partner’s behavior is taking on your relationship.People who are constantly looking for reasons to ditch work probably aren’t the most responsible of folks. Your partner doesn’t have to ditch work on the reg to qualify as someone who’s terrible with personal finances.
Shirking important duties (i.e., showing up to work and earning a paycheck) is hardly a habit of successful adults. Even if they manage to hold down a steady job and make a good living, the wild world we’re living in gives them more than enough opportunities to blow that hard-earned cash on things they don’t really need.
If your partner doesn’t have a job, and has zero ambition to get one, Buzzfeed says it’s a surefire sign you’re dating a childish adult.