And according to "How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days," isn't all supposed to be fair in love and war?
Since it is feasible to quantify that a man who you begin to date is also dating a few other women, you need to enter this potential relationship with an open heart but with strong boundaries.
How can you tell if he puts you in Category 1 or Category 2?
If you are a woman who is actually looking for a relationship, these three words will help you discern: close thy legs.
But, if you are done with getting your heart broken by fuckboys, being ghosted by guys who seemed like “nice guys” and scrutinizing every post-coital text (or lack thereof), screw the “three date rule”and follow your new golden rule: Don't sleep with him until you are in an exclusive relationship.
At Matchmakers In The City, no sex until exclusivity is literally in our official Dating Guidelines, and every day I open up an email with a new success story of a couple who followed it and is now enjoying a fabulous, committed relationship.
A part of me wants to say sorry to all of the men who may think that I am portraying their entire species as horn dogs, but another, much bigger part of me thinks #sorrynotsorry. This is the single most misinterpreted fact about men that women cannot seem to wrap their heads around, because sex for women is totally opposite.Be your open, charming self, have fun on your dates, yet keep your wits about you and your options open… Let me explain to you the mentality of many men using the dating apps on the reg.This is going to be hard to swallow, so take a deep breath and a sip of that Pinot.and for our entire generation), and I have match-made and coached hundreds of women: from A-list celebrities, to successful girl bosses, to cover models, who all don't understand why they can't get into an exclusive relationship with a nice guy. If you have yet to hire a professional Matchmaker like myself, which I highly encourage if you are in the financial place to do it, you are probably meeting men on dating apps or online (or in real life if you read this genius article by yours truly). If a guy is relying heavily on the apps as his primary source for meeting women, he is coming into the dating scene with a completely different mentality than men of the past who dated solely based on who they met in their everyday lives.
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